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Love & Logic Classes
2010
New Class begins August 30. All classes are from 5:30-7:30 PM and are on the following evenings:
Aug. 30
September 1, 8, 15, 22, 27 and 29
Total cost for the class if you pre-register is $60 per person and includes the workbook. To take advantage of the pre-registration price you will need to register NO LATER than August 16. ALL registrants after August 16 are $75 per person. (I do require a minimum number of people to register in order to start a class and the max number I can take at this time is 10.)
Register by mail: Send check made out to Judy Girard to 315 N Weber St Suite 101, Colorado Springs, CO 80903.
If you have questions, 719-444-8429 or email here.. Once I have a definite response I will send out a confirmation e-mail and any more details. Class will be held in my office unless otherwise specified.
Love & Logic
What is Love and Logic?
Clearchoices provides workshops that
teach the unique Love and Logic approach to raising
children which puts teachers and parents in control,
teaches children to be responsible and prepares them
for the real world. Workshops are offered periodically
throughout the year and taught by Judy Girard,
MA, LMFT. The presentation
is done in a fun environment while coaching you to be
a love and logic parent or teacher.
Each
class lasts seven weeks for two hours on a weeknight
evening. Childcare is NOT provided and the classes are
for adults only. Call today to get
information on how your church, school, group or civic
organization can host a Love and Logic workshop or to
obtain the dates of an upcoming workshop near you.
What is the Love and Logic
Process© ?
- Shared control: Gain control by giving away the
control you don't need.
- Shared thinking and decision-making: Provide opportunities
for the child to do the greatest amount of thinking
and decision-making.
- Equal shares of empathy with consequences: An absence
of anger causes a child to think and learn from
his/her mistakes.
- Maintain the child's self-concept: Increased self-concept
leads to improved behavior and improved achievement.
The Rules of
Love and Logic:
Adults take
care of themselves by providing limits in a loving way.
- Adults avoid anger, threats, warnings or lectures.
- Adults use enforceable statements.
- Children are offered choices within limits.
- Limits are maintained with compassion, understanding
and empathy.
Childhood misbehavior
is treated as an opportunity for gaining wisdom.
- In a loving way, the adult holds the child accountable
for solving his/her problems in a way that does
not make a problem for others.
- Children are offered choices with limits.
- Adults use enforceable statements.
- Adults provide delayed/extended consequences.
- The adult's empathy is "locked in" before consequences
are delivered.
©1996 Jim Fay
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